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2011

whisperingvenus — Tue, 04 Jan 2011 19:35:23 +0000

Yikes .. I know my lovies that it has been far too long since the Goddess has posted .. But since owning real estate as a oppose to renting it I have been crazy busy. Not leaving much time for my usual antic. Although my new gig is proving to be its own little pond. UNFORTUNATELY most of the visitors to my quaint little oasis are toads. Yes Toads… I have been spending my time creating menus , running the joint and fending off a barge of toads. Seriously with the birds falling from the sky and the surreal amount of toads that seem to hang at my pond I too agree with the extremist… ITS THE END OF DAYS!!!
JUST JOKING.. its just the beginning of my new adventures and I have some pond cleaning to do. Hmm maybe I should contact the scientist that are studying this strange phenomenon of red winged black birds falling from the sky to come to the restaurant and see if they can find the cause of why I have a stupid amount of toads.
Now I don’t mind toads, for they are someones prince, in truth some are kind of cute even sexy in a toadish kind of way. Sometimes I even find them entertaining of course that is after having several white wine spritzers and a few shots a Jameson ( now now lets not go into shock I have just slightly moved to the right of the Patron). But still they are toads. Now here I am in 2011 and I am not to excited to build my empire with a lack luster line up. So until those MR. Bigs make their way to my side of the bridge , I will be forced to share the hysterical stories of the adventures of my joint.
How fitting the Goddess of the bar stool has her very own fleet of them to choose from.
Happy New year my beloveds, I know this year will bring us all more then just a chuckle.. So lets get ready….. Cheers to it being almost 5pm!!!!!

so sad

whisperingvenus — Mon, 05 Apr 2010 21:30:33 +0000

This Goddess is so sad.. I can’t believe it.. I was working a wonderful little tete’ a tete’ with an adorable frog. Awesome Sex texting that was certainly leading to something more when i actually could have come up for air and had time to do more.. The new restaurant has me buried in transition stuff and Hudson has me rolling in mommy things. So free time has been non existant. Which turns out to be the universes way of stopping me from a fate worse than a blind date, THE Dreaded Cougar!!! I was all caught up in the awfully cute incredibly sexy artist frog and the fun texting that was going on.. Then today as I was finding time to actually do some .. ok all of what we had been so extensively describing to each other , he hits me with his bday is coming up. OK how old are you? OMG what .. uh?? Oh no!!!! pop goes the balloon and my libido is depleted into a shot of patron. So sad, so depressing, what a waste of extremely creative and very eventful sex texting( yes eventful use your imagination) I feel dirty, I feel like one of those old guys that watch way to young girls walk pass. What a shame, so cute, so sexy.. so YOUNG. I will say that I am somewhat excited though , maybe not as bad as I think. So a cute young frog has spent his time and talents in wooing this Goddess. Ok I feel much better. Still I have set free the tadpole, back into the pond to find a more age appropriate chica to flirt with it. I myself will put my nose back to the grind stone and a wait for a fossil of a frog to hop onto this lilly pad.

Until then cold showers and patron will have to do.. Because this Goddess does not do the Demi thing..

GODdess creates a new path

whisperingvenus — Wed, 31 Mar 2010 00:12:34 +0000

After all these years, ( not as many as you smart alicks think) I have decided to by my own real estate. I bought out my ex not the recent ex but an ex all the same out of his restaurant. I do have a partner kind of inherited from him. But all the same my own joint. I am sorry for all my favorite places. I am sure you can take a loan out to subsides the income loss that you will be experiencing with my departure at this time. But hey I had to do something. Lets face it relying on the kindness of adorable froggies gets old. In truth Hudson and I felt it was time to brave this world on our own. Blazing our own trail. We are not sure where the trail is going to wind up but we know it has to start close to the joint. Funny here I am a single mom again and starting over where I kind of began. Back in the day my best of days I was a director of sales for a seafood company and a GM of a Caters then of course all the little jobs in between to make money.. ahhhhh back in my element.
I never thought this would be the case , but i threw it up to Zeus ( GOD) and asked him to take the reins and steer this old work horse in the right direction. Questioning not what was brought to me, grateful and ready.
So I decided my contribution to the bistro would be my stellar personality, good looks and abilities in creating divine concoctions of libations. Yes I have found my calling.. So delicious. I get to share my enthusiasm for alcohol and fine foods as well as be the ever-present and listening ear that i am already.. OH yes and give my ever valuable advice . Ah yes the perfect fit.
It is never to late or to soon to find , change or recreate your path. As long as you are present and aware and fearless all is possible. Joy in all you do when you are doin it also helps.
So stop by, have a seat, taste one of my delicious bread stick ( home-made by MOI ) decided what sinful but oh so good cocktail you are going to start you night off with then get ready for a titillating of gastronomy . Come with friends or alone there is always someone to talk to ,,, ME.. We can sit and plan to follow your dreams over a fresh keytini.

all my love lovies and let’s get ready for some crazy posts because this bar rocks and the restaurant does a little bit more then just cook!

Breaking the HERA curse

whisperingvenus — Mon, 01 Mar 2010 23:02:03 +0000

I have decided enough is enough and I am going to over ride that silly curse Hera or is it Zeus has placed on moi.. What curse you ask.. ah my little non readers. If you are asking what curse then you are not keeping up with my posts (this is why I shall not ruin a perfectly beautiful manicure on tapping away everyday on a key board to post) To refresh your memories because I am a kind Goddess ( stop the snickering) the silly curse that has seemed to tie me to a man , one man.. all the time, knowing I am by nature a .. what is that word.. arrgg it begins with a M.. UMMM well for arguments sake I am a one guy at a time kind of goddess ( easy I can read your minds) for the most part.

So I have decided to let the latest froggie free to hop from lily pad to lily pad , he just has to hop off mine. Now listen my darlings this latest froggie is a doll, adorable and will make some lovely lady a wonderful prince. I am groovy with the total concept of getting out while the getting is good. For I too have waited far to long to cut the cord in the past , thanks to the curse ( well you certainly did not think I would assume total blame myself.. did you) So I am back hmm that is not right. I can’t be back because I think the last time I was single if that is the correct word to describe being with out one particular mate. OMGODDESS since I was like 16ish.. Wow that was one powerful curse , because before then it was my dear old , very loving, over bearing quite controlling very strict dad that did not allow frogs to kiss his little princess. OMGODDESS I feel deprived, I feel out of touch ( ok enough seriously if you are going to make comments on everything I say.. sheesh)

Is it true, am I free, can I ahh I can.. OOOO this just might be fun. What the hell have all you chicas who are single been so freaked about. I think this is going to be amazing, fun and very eclectic..

I feel it best to leave it there for now, but know my darlings this Goddess is on her way to buy a new pair of Choo’s an call her favorite botox specialist..

Since it 6pm cocktail is in hand… here is to a new adventure and breaking into tiny little pieces HERA silly curse

snow days….

whisperingvenus — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 21:57:58 +0000

I am certain that this will be the last of the snow days.. hmm or I will call Zeus and give him more than just a piece of what he usually looks for. Talking about that piece.. today is definitely a perfect day for a piece of everything. I am hoping that my chicas and Goddesses in training are all shacked up and bedded down on some adorable little froggies lily pad. If not I am hoping they are home under their covers watching old movies and sex texting , fantasy emailing or better yet phone sexing some hot little amphibian. Letting your imagination take the better of you to places that are far more hotter than here.

According to some friendly chicas , it may seem that I am somewhat pre occupied with the other sex and my excitement over playing with them. Not that I think my delicious male counter parts are toys.. ok I do think they are toys. But in truth I don’t think I am anymore or any less anything. The exchange of pleasures has always been a distraction for me. Maybe that is why Men have never really been my issue. Of course liking them in all shapes, sizes, ages .. sizes.. oh did I say that already, there is that damn distraction again. But in truth my chica dicas and chico’s for those that read the adventures. What is wrong with relishing in the delights of cozying up and getting down ( I know that was corny even for me) with a hot body on a cold day. I find it quite disheartening that men have been able to have this distraction without discussion. Are we living in the 50′s which by the way might have been the start of the key parties. Lets not for get the turn of the century and the birth of S&M thanks to that devilish book VENUS IN FUR ( she certainly gets around.. and yes she was the dominant!!). THe 60′s of free love. I think we have evolved and I feel that my evolution is happening at the perfect pace.

So to all those with big mouths and small minds pick yourself an up a trash novel and jump-start your failed imagination. As for me I will pick up one to see if there is anything new out there that I could possible learn ( of which I will look forward to a lab partner ) So Enlightenment in hand ( oh that’s a cocktail I learned how to make using patron LOL got cha on that one didn’t I) book on table.. cell phone next to me and boytoy on speed dial. LET it snow!!!!

the law of averages says….

whisperingvenus — Mon, 08 Feb 2010 16:40:43 +0000

Ok I am the Goddess and inmy world it is the law above averages.. says.. But in any case it says that eventually it will be your turn. Look at our amazing Saints.. Come on what a game and what a wonderful sign. Not only did they finally make it to the bowl, but they came from behind ( easy there now friends this is a clean post today) and won. Creating not only one history making situation but several. WOO HOO law of above average says when it is your turn make it count.. All OUT!!!!

It is what I have been saying to you all along ( you know who you are) everyone gets a turn, it is what you do what that turn that matters. If your turn comes and you are in the Day LATE DOLLAR SHORT frame of mind .. well then you yourself have wasted that precious moment. Now if your turn comes and you take yourself out of the black hole and jump for joy and use that moment to its fullest. Like those adorable boytoys in tights gold spandex last night. Then you will not only take full advantage of the universal gift, you my friend will create the energy for the its yor turn moment to happen everyday. YES.. luck attracts luck, abundance to abundance, It is making the most and being in total gratitude of what and where you are. Come on what better example then of last nights super bowl. Even if you ain’t a football fan the lesson is still there. Its real, your time is now, the chances of luck are planty and it is up to you to grab them and make them work for you.

THE END

cute young tadpoles, old toads and the Goddess

whisperingvenus — Tue, 02 Feb 2010 02:07:21 +0000

Hmm since my new found freedom.. well almost freedom it seems this Goddess can’t stay single for very long. I think it might have something to do with that nasty curse Hera has on me.. But still the Goddess can flirt.. even if with disasters. In truth I love the makings of a great action flick and disasters do lend themselves to just that. As my mother ( no not Hera who is tech my mother, sister, aunt and stepmother.. ahh the Greeks really knew how to DO IT back in the day) but the earthly mom has said men were never my problem. Good , bad and the absolutely delicious which mommy dearest would refer to as the ones that I like during my frontal lobotomy. Still since calling it quits with the Gman I have been somewhat more aware of the attentions of the opposite sex. Which sometimes has led to some very interesting reading, or as in others the need for a paper bag ( depending on the frog or toad it is either to vomit in or place over their heads). It is true I do have an insatiable appetite for my male counter parts , I have said often no matter the age I find most incredibly fascinating. I guess since my partial parole I might be playing a bit more with TNT .. No disrespect for my new boytoy But lets face it I do have done research.. Strictly to share with my chica’s and Goddesses in training. In the field experience is as important as the home studies. Which leads me to my post.. GALS whats up. There are plenty of frogs out there. I know and I do have to agree since starting my new research some frogs are .. well lets just say it would take more then a paper bag and spell from cupid to make some frogs even into wanna be princes . I know what some of my single chica’s have been up against ( yes pun intended) from the dirty old men who think a place in life buys them a pass to being blinded by truth, that truth being that even with the golden tix you are still an old jerk. To the delicious out of work actor who is as cute as the day is long but can’t afford to buy you a dirty water dog. This can make it seem that the picking are slim. Hold fast my friends for it is not as bleak as you think. As long as you keep all in perspective. For the dirty old man just might have a single cute son or even nephew ( hey he is using you as eye candy , don’t kid yourself for you have nothing in common unless you work for AARP or dig depends) and the delicious out of work actor can make eating a dirty water dog chased by a cheap bottle of wine the most romantic not to mention erotic date you will ever have possibly teaching a new trick or 2 .. or renaming .. lol hmm re inventing… reminding you of some tricks you might have forgotten . Yes to my soap box!! kiss the damn frogs. Live in the moment .. you never know… I mean look at me and my new flame. A oldie but goodie from years past. He aged beautifully , matured nicely and kisses as passionate as I remember. Thank GODDESS I live by what I preach.

Happy Everything

whisperingvenus — Fri, 08 Jan 2010 15:33:26 +0000

New Year !!!!! New Life!!!! Even a NEw Frog.. Yes the Goddess is talking the talk and walking the walk and is rolling with the winds of change. I want all of my heart of hearts to know that my time with Mike was beautiful , special and a important time in my life. I and grateful for the 9 1/2 yrs we spent together. But just like in show biz close on a high note. So that is what we did. The Kabbalha teaches that we have many soul mates.. Each bringing us new gifts, helping us on our journey and in place to complete our past lives contracts. I am confident in knowing that Mike and I are soul mates and our contract is now complete. We can not fear change nor can we fear the journey. It is only when we attach to a outcome that we become stuck in our fears. What will be and what if what I want is not going t be. This is a era in our universe where we are to let go and allow the universe to move us into place. Our place in the light where we can lives our souls purpose with grace and ease. Honor and embrace all that has been brought to you to this positive now point in time. Every event, person and action is a blessing and has been placed to you for you to use right now…

I see no good or bad, just chances to grow and create with majesty and ease. This is what I know for all of you.. I know that each of you carry with in you the same divine spark that I have. The same divine spark of love and light that Esa carries, Buddha , Allah , Miriam of Magdelena, Mother Mary and yes VENUS. The same light that is bestowed on all creation… on all of the amazing being that have walked this earth, flown through this universe and have held heaven gate open for us.

I ask you my divine beings to unleash your light. Fearlessly move into your power and create your desires. For your desires are the desires of the Universes. Your desires and will are the same of that which flows from GOD , Source, Creator, Mother Father Divine.. I was in mass one morning and I heard a deep voice come from behind me. Being that it was 7:45 am mass the church was empty with the exception of the few ladies that are so dedicated to their faith that not a morning is missed even in sickness. So I knew this voice was not one in human form. His kind and firm voice spoke” YOur desires are my desires.. fill me with your will” . I was at a loss for at that moment in time my desire was to create peace in my very chaotic world. You see my friends I was holding on for dear life to what I attached to.. Selfish in not seeing that it was well passed its expiration date and creating illness in my world. Scared and sickened with fear. I started back to my roots, church to find the doors to my home again. So here I sit hearing voices and crying in desperation. I left the church that morning feeling hurt and angry. For my will was not being met and here this bodiless voice is giving me a request. Where is my request why is it not being met… In the car facing my beloved river I sat in tears. The voice found me again. This time it spoke with a clarity and directness that sent chills through me. ” Find a Solace in my arm, Peace in my Words and Strength in my Love” Fill me with your Desires for your will is my will”" Fill me with my Will”

All fear and pain left me. I could feel my heart open and my eyes clear. There was no more chatter in my thoughts but a sense of direction and purpose. Find Solace in my arms, yes for when I am to weak to walk I can feel the arms of light wrap around me and carry me. Peace in my words, yes for when I am to troubled to hear my own thoughts , the words of courage are gently whispered to my heart. Find Strenght in my Love, the very love that unconditionally showers each of us with such intensity that we shall never know a moment of sorrow. This is the desires of our heart of hearts, this is the wish for us from those that came before us and those who have yet to grace this universe. All we have to do is Allow and Accept.. So simple is the direction for us to be in joy. So simple is the ideas set forth from the great beings that see abstractly for us. So simple is the wish of our sacred heart, to know unconditional , powerful, passionate , joyful love.

So this is the year my beloveds… To throw caution to the wind and follow your hearts desires. Know that what you preceived is only from fear and what you allow to happen with out trepidation is a creation of divine love. Fear not judgements but embrace thoughts of freedom.

Happy New year

Happy Thanks & Giving

whisperingvenus — Thu, 26 Nov 2009 15:28:14 +0000

Happy Happy Thanks & Giving…. to all my hearts of hearts. I am grateful for your support and love. The Goddess is back and the Holidays are here.. Which can only mean that there will be plenty to rant, rave, share and oh yes write about… so with Gratitude as our attitude and love in our hearts lets rock this thankful day.. Be in joy, be in love and most importantly BE IN GRATITUDE…. ok now go out and kiss some turkey’s heheheh ok maybe frogs that go gobble gobble… Lets not forget that cocktail hour can now officially start…. I love the holidays, now where is that patron…

a letter from chica

whisperingvenus — Sun, 01 Nov 2009 12:49:29 +0000

have never had the pleasure to meet Bianca in person, but i did have the opportunity to talk to her many times and with that be blessed with her advices.
I was introduced to Bianca through my co-worker, whom Bianca had already helped. My friend knew the struggle i was going through. She told me that Bianca could help me and in fact she did.
I had just moved back from FL to NY and was renting a small one bedroom apartment which I shared with my two teenagers. I had already been looking for a home for a year and was about to give up. I was also going through an immigration process for my adopted son which based on what i was told by my lawyer, he was going to be deported in October. I wasn’t happy in my job besides was also very drepressed. I had already lost all my hopes.
On my appointment with Bianca she told me many things i had to get done in order for my life to change for better.
Bianca told me to be patience and that I was going to find my perfect home where I was going to be very happy. She told me not to worry about my nephew’s case and that he wasn’t going to be deported. She tought me to allow the good things to happen in my life and be positive. She explained to me how important it is to allow the good energy to be part of me and that with that everything i wanted was going to happen including meeting my MR. RIGHT.
I found my home, i got a new job, my nephew was not deported, and i am very close to meeting the man that is going to make the happiest woman alive. I really can feel it coming my way.
Bianca was also very supportive every time i needed. I would e-mail her every time I felt depressed, worried, had doubts or for any other reason and she would always be kind and give me all the attention and advices i needed to keep going. She always had the ability to transform my worries into hope and her words make me feel strong again to the point that i didn’t give up and now I can say that I am happy and looking forward to be even happier. Now i believe in the power of the energy and that if you are positive you can get anywhere you want.
Bianca has helped me a lot and i will always be thankful to her for that.
Iva Costa